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For generations women had a tough time convincing doctors to take them seriously for many medical conditions, especially Fibromyalgia. Women have been called hysterical and told to curtail their active imaginations. However, men with Fibromyalgia are
dealing with an entirely different issue; they just don’t talk about it. Can you blame men for not coming forward with a woman’s disease when she is being told that it’s all in her head?

Now, let me tell you a little about this serious syndrome for both men and woman. Not necessarily the facts the doctors give you, but how the sufferers perceive it. Do you remember the flu that kept you from getting up out of bed for two weeks? Remember how difficult it was getting up out of bed and going to the bathroom? You were tired, uncomfortable, and ached all over, so you took medication to sleep. Now, I want you to imagine two things. First, you have no medication to ease the flu symptoms and second, the flu never goes away. In fact, Fibromyalgia does progress, not only does your pain and fatigue increase, other symptoms start appearing, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman.


With men, these flu-like symptoms manifest themselves a little differently at first because of gender roles and the physical differences between men and women. Men don’t go to doctors and often become stoic, hiding symptoms. Additionally, men have a tendency to isolate more than women and don’t want to be seen as whiners. They often wait until they can’t function at all before seeking medical attention. Fibromyalgia is sometimes called the invisible disability and for men this is especially true. I talked to Ron Mesic, Michigan, who began suffering with fibromyalgia as a teen. Ron said, “I seriously suspect that when I started seeking help, the prevailing attitude of medical professionals was that men should be tough, and importantly – modern medicine doesn’t cure much, they just make the patient comfortable while the body cures itself.”

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